Why Who You Know Matters

I used to cringe at the saying, “It’s not what you know, it’s who you know.” It makes like life sound like a popularity contest. Almost as if relationships were more important than knowledge. The truth is I didn’t understand it’s impact. 

Who you know will not only determine how long you will last, but how far you will go.  Ministry is very relational. Who you know will help you build trust with parents. It will help you reach out to more teens.  

Who you know goes beyond the parents, the teens and even your volunteers. It extends all the way to:

What Being Lost In The Woods Taught Me About Being A Leader

I had five minutes to meet everyone at the beach with no clue how to get back.  I had told people if I did not return after an hour to start considering looking for me.  

It was my first time in Acadia National Park.  I had been taken in by the scene a little too long.  With no idea what path to take I finally found blue markers.  I focused on the path and made my way back to family.  In the end I was only five minutes late.

As leaders we are going to find ourselves out of our elements sometimes.  My situation was not life and death; however, it did give me time to reflect on 3 leadership principles.  Basically as a leader:

How To Truly Last In Youth Ministry

At the end of a long day I just need to unwind.  My job is filled with many rewards; however, there can be times I just want to mail it in.  One of the ways I release the tension is through music (Especially with songs like Hold On by The Gospel Whiskey Runners).  It’s one of the small things I do to help me last in youth ministry.  

Youth ministry is like a marathon.  It’s a journey filled with challenges and moments when you ask, “Why am I still doing this?”  It can be brutal because of the emotional and spiritual battles that take place.  While youth ministry is grueling it’s still rewarding.

To stick around and witness those rewards you need to know how to last in youth ministry.  That means doing a few small things and not neglecting the essentials.  To last in youth ministry you need to:

What Every Youth Minister Needs To Build Confidence

My confidence was shot.  My first run, after passing out in the marathon, was a scary experience.  I didn’t know whether or not to believe the doctors when they said that I would be fine.  I felt awkward and anxious with each step. 

It took several weeks to build back my confidence.  I was told my situation was caused by dehydration, but in my mind I thought it was much worse.  To build back confidence I literally had to take each run one step at a time.

In youth ministry you are going to face situations where your confidence is tested.  You might deal with:

Advice For Rookies

As I go through the process of writing a book I find myself reminiscing an array of moments.  Many of them are filled with joy and then some filled with pain.  It’s especially during those first few years where I faced some of my toughest moments.

One thing that helped me get through the early years was the advice and wisdom from veteran youth ministers.  It was through their love and care that I was able to grow into the leader I am today.  It was with their loving guidance that they showed me to: